Merciful, as Your Father Is Merciful

On a mountain and on a plain, Jesus described the character of His disciples and called us to love the way the Father loves

  • 📖 Adult Sunday School
  • Week 7
  • 📅 Sunday, February 14, 2027
🏆 Showdown
💡 The big idea

The Beatitudes describe the character of Jesus Christ and of the disciples He is shaping. His higher law reaches past our actions to our hearts, and its summit is to love and show mercy the way our Father does, a perfection we grow into through His grace, not by our own grit.

I can let the Savior change my heart, not only my behavior, and show one person this week the kind of mercy the Father shows me.

Know the chapters

Matthew 5–7 is the Sermon on the Mount, the longest block of the Savior’s teaching in the Gospels. Luke 6:17–49 gives a shorter sermon delivered “in the plain,” just after Jesus “continued all night in prayer to God” and chose the Twelve (Luke 6:12–16). Matthew 5 moves in clear sections: the Beatitudes (5:3–12), salt and light (5:13–16), fulfilling the law (5:17–20), six contrasts that begin “Ye have heard that it was said… But I say unto you” (5:21–47), and the call to “be ye therefore perfect” (5:48). Luke pairs four blessings with four woes (Luke 6:20–26) and ends with the house built on a rock (6:46–49).

The Restoration adds light. The risen Savior taught this sermon again at the temple in Bountiful (3 Nephi 12–14), with meaningful differences: “blessed are the poor in spirit who come unto me” (3 Nephi 12:3); those who hunger and thirst after righteousness “shall be filled with the Holy Ghost” (12:6); the phrase “without a cause” is absent from the verse on anger (12:22); and He says, “I would that ye should be perfect even as I, or your Father who is in heaven is perfect” (12:48). The footnote to Matthew 5:48 notes that the Greek word translated “perfect” means complete, finished, fully developed.

Each “But I say unto you” moves a commandment from the hands to the heart: not only no murder, but no contempt; not only no adultery, but no lust; not only fair retaliation, but turning the other cheek and going the second mile. In Jesus’s day Roman soldiers could compel a civilian to carry their gear a set distance; He says to carry it twice as far. The chapter’s highest command is to love enemies and pray for those who mistreat us, “that ye may be the children of your Father” who sends sun and rain on the just and the unjust (5:44–45). Luke says the same thing in one line: “Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful” (Luke 6:36).

Twenty-five minutes goes fast, so choose. This lesson centers on the Beatitudes and on loving and showing mercy as the Father does. Handle Matthew 5:27–32 gently: some in your room have been divorced or remarried, and the verses on divorce shouldn’t become a discussion topic. Watch for perfectionism too. Many faithful adults hear “Be ye therefore perfect” as an accusation; the Savior meant it as an invitation He helps us fulfill.

Only have 5 minutes?

Read Matthew 5 and Luke 6:12–49. Open by asking what a social media post tagged “blessed” usually shows. Read Matthew 5:3–12 and ask which Beatitude describes the Savior most clearly. Then read Luke 6:36 beside Matthew 5:48 and talk about perfection as becoming complete through Christ. Use the But I Say unto You questions, read Matthew 5:16, and invite everyone to show mercy to one person this week.

What to bring2 items

Tick what you have. Forgot something? Every step that needs a supply has a no-supplies version in the plan below.

Before class

  1. Read Matthew 5 and Luke 6 straight through, then 3 Nephi 12:1–12 and 12:48. Mark Matthew 5:3–12, 23–24, 44–48 and Luke 6:36.
  2. Ask one person ahead of time to be the Reader for the narration in the scripture scene (Luke 6:17–19 and Matthew 5:1–2). A quick message on Saturday is plenty.
  3. Look at the footnote on Matthew 5:48 so you can point it out on the shared screen.
  4. Think of someone who once showed you mercy you didn’t earn. A short, honest example is a good way into the second discussion.
  5. Pick the two or three discussion questions you most want to reach. You won’t have time for all of them.

Discussion tips

  • Quiet class? Give a minute to reread the Beatitudes silently and choose one before anyone speaks. People who won’t speak to the room will talk to a neighbor.
  • One voice filling every pause? Thank them warmly and say, “Let’s hear from someone who hasn’t had a chance yet,” or send the next question to pairs.
  • “Love your enemies” can touch real wounds: abuse, betrayal, a painful divorce. Make clear that loving and forgiving someone doesn’t mean excusing harm or staying in danger, and that healing often takes time and help.
  • Perfectionists in the room may hear Matthew 5:48 as one more standard they’re failing. Read 3 Nephi 12:48 and the footnote together, and let the Holland quote do its work: perfection is a gift received through Christ over time.
  • Visitors and new members: explain that the Sermon on the Mount appears in both the Bible and the Book of Mormon, put references on the shared screen, and never ask anyone to read aloud without checking first.

The 25-minute plan25 min + bonus

Bonus steps are for when you have extra time. Each “On the screen” line is what the class sees on a shared screen in Teach Mode in the Gospel Sparks app; on paper, read it aloud or write it on the board. On the web you can play Scripture Showdown from this page.

1. Hook

Hashtag Blessed

3 min

Opens with the world’s idea of “blessed” so the Savior’s version stands out.

  1. Ask: “If you saw a social media post tagged ‘blessed,’ what would the picture probably show?”
  2. Take a few quick answers: a new car, a vacation, a promotion, a beautiful family photo.
  3. SAY“None of those are bad. But when Jesus sat down to describe who is truly blessed, His list looked very different. Let’s hear it in context.”

On the screen: 📱 What does the world picture when it says “blessed”?

2. Story

Read It in Context: The Sermon on the Mount

6 min

Sets the sermon in its real moment, after a night of prayer and before a crowd reaching to touch Him.

  1. Open Teach Mode to the scripture scene. The shared screen shows one scene at a time.
  2. Read each scene’s context yourself, then let the Reader and the class read their verses. You read the Savior’s words; no one is assigned to speak as Him.
  3. Read the Beatitudes slowly, with a short pause after each one.
  4. After scene 7, let a few seconds of silence sit before moving on.

On the screen: ⛰️ A night of prayer, a crowd reaching for Him, and a surprising list of who is blessed · Follow along in Luke 6:12–19 and Matthew 5:1–16

3. Scripture

Perfect, Merciful, Complete

4 min

Studies the sermon’s summit closely so class members see perfection as becoming like the Father through Christ.

  1. Put Luke 6:36 on the shared screen and read it. Then read Matthew 5:48.
  2. SAY“Luke and Matthew end the same teaching two ways. With the person next to you, what does Luke’s word ‘merciful’ add to Matthew’s word ‘perfect’?”
  3. Show the footnote to Matthew 5:48: the Greek means complete, finished, fully developed. Then read 3 Nephi 12:48, where the risen Savior adds, “even as I.”
  4. Share Elder Jeffrey R. Holland’s words about grace and self-criticism (in “From general conference” below).
  5. Ask: “How does it change things to hear this command as an invitation He will help us fulfill?”

On the screen: 🌱 “Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.” · Luke 6:36; Matthew 5:48; 3 Nephi 12:48 · Perfect: complete, finished, fully developed

4. Talk it over

Blessed Are…

5 min

Helps adults see the Beatitudes as a portrait of the Savior and a path of growth for themselves.

  1. Pick two or three questions; don’t try to cover them all.
  2. Start the second question in pairs: one minute with a neighbor, then invite a few to share with the room.
  3. Let silence work. Count to seven in your head before rescuing a question.
💬 Ask the class
  • Which Beatitude describes the Savior most clearly to you? Where do you see it in His life?
  • Which Beatitude runs most against what our culture calls “blessed”? (Talk with a neighbor first.)
  • In 3 Nephi 12:3 the Savior says, “blessed are the poor in spirit who come unto me.” How does “who come unto me” change the way you read the whole list?
  • Which Beatitude do you feel the Lord inviting you to grow into right now?

On the screen: 🕊️ Which Beatitude describes the Savior best, and which is He inviting you to grow into? · Matthew 5:3–12; 3 Nephi 12:3–12

5. Talk it over

But I Say unto You

5 min

Applies the Savior’s higher law of the heart to real relationships, especially difficult ones.

  1. Read Matthew 5:21–24 and 5:43–45 while the class follows along.
  2. Point out the pattern: each time, Jesus moves the commandment from our actions to our hearts.
  3. Ask two or three questions, then move to the testimony on time.
💬 Ask the class
  • In each “But I say unto you,” Jesus moves from behavior to the heart. Why can’t His higher law stop at behavior?
  • Matthew 5:23–24 says to be reconciled before bringing our gift to the altar. How might that shape the way we prepare for the sacrament?
  • The Father “sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.” What would loving like that look like with a difficult coworker, relative or neighbor?
  • Think of someone who showed you mercy you hadn’t earned. What did it do for you?

On the screen: 🤝 “Love your enemies… that ye may be the children of your Father.” · Matthew 5:21–24, 38–48; Luke 6:27–36

6. Testimony

Let Your Light So Shine

2 min

Ends with testimony of Jesus Christ as the perfect example of the Beatitudes, and a concrete invitation for the week.

  1. Turn on the flashlight or candle, cover it with the bowl for a moment, then lift the bowl away.
  2. Read Matthew 5:16.
  3. Invite one or two people to share, in a sentence or two, how they have seen the Savior’s mercy in someone else’s life.
  4. Bear a short testimony that Jesus Christ lived every Beatitude perfectly, and that He can make us complete.
  5. Invite: “This week, choose one person who is hard for you to love. Pray for them by name, and do one kind thing for them.”

On the screen: 💡 Let your light so shine, that they may glorify your Father. · Matthew 5:16 · This week: pray for one hard-to-love person by name, and do one kind thing.

No supplies? Do this instead

Instead of: A small flashlight or battery candle and a bowl or basket to cover it

  1. Read Matthew 5:14–16 and ask everyone to picture a lamp hidden under a basket, then lifted onto a stand.
  2. Invite one or two people to share, in a sentence or two, how they have seen the Savior’s mercy in someone else’s life.
  3. Bear a short testimony that Jesus Christ lived every Beatitude perfectly, and that He can make us complete.
  4. Invite: “This week, choose one person who is hard for you to love. Pray for them by name, and do one kind thing for them.”
7. Talk it over

The Mote and the Beam

5 minBONUS

A bonus look at Luke 6:37–42 and the Savior’s teaching on judging.

  1. Read Luke 6:37–38, then Luke 6:41–42.
  2. Explain that a mote is a speck of sawdust and a beam is a large timber.
  3. Ask one or two questions.
💬 Ask the class
  • Why is it so much easier to see the speck in someone else’s eye than the beam in our own?
  • Luke 6:38 promises “good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over.” How have you seen generosity come back to you?
  • What helps you replace a judgmental thought with a charitable one in the moment?

On the screen: 🪵 “Judge not, and ye shall not be judged… forgive, and ye shall be forgiven.” · Luke 6:37–42

8. Game

Scripture Showdown

5 minBONUS

A light, friendly review if you finish early.

  1. Split the room down the middle into two teams.
  2. Launch Scripture Showdown on your phone or tablet and read each question aloud.
  3. After each reveal, read the reference so people can mark it.

On the screen: 🏆 Scripture Showdown: how well do you know Matthew 5 and Luke 6?

Read it together

The Sermon on the Mount

Luke 6:12–19; Matthew 5:1–16 ↗

Reading parts

  • ReaderReads the narration: Luke 6:17–19 and Matthew 5:1–2.
  • The ClassEveryone reads Psalm 37:11 together, the psalm the Savior echoes in the third Beatitude.

Scenes

  1. 🌌 All night in prayer

    Before His great sermon, Jesus goes up a mountain alone and prays through the entire night. In the morning He calls His disciples and chooses twelve of them to be Apostles.

    🎬 The teacher reads Luke 6:12–13.

  2. 🧺 A multitude trying to touch Him

    Crowds have come from Judea, Jerusalem and even the coast of Tyre and Sidon. Everyone is reaching for Him, because power is going out from Him and healing them all.

    🎬 The Reader reads Luke 6:17–19.

  3. ⛰️ He opened his mouth, and taught them

    Matthew places the sermon on a mountain. Jesus sits down, as teachers did, and His disciples gather close.

    🎬 The Reader reads Matthew 5:1–2.

  4. 😢 “Blessed are they that mourn”

    His first words turn the world’s idea of “blessed” upside down: the poor in spirit, the mourners, the hungry for righteousness.

    🎬 The teacher reads Matthew 5:3–6, pausing briefly after each Beatitude.

  5. 🌾 The meek shall inherit the earth

    Some in the crowd would have recognized the third blessing. It echoes a psalm they sang.

    🎬 The Class reads Psalm 37:11 together. Then the teacher reads Matthew 5:7–9.

  6. 🔥 Persecuted for righteousness’ sake

    The last Beatitudes are for people who pay a price for following Him. He tells them to rejoice, and puts them in the company of the prophets.

    🎬 The teacher reads Matthew 5:10–12.

  7. 💡 A city that is set on an hill

    Then He tells these ordinary people what they are: salt that preserves and flavors, light that can’t be hidden.

    🎬 The teacher reads Matthew 5:13–16. Let a few seconds of quiet follow.

Key verse

Luke 6:36 ↗
“Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.”
In plain words: Luke’s version of the Savior’s great command: become like our Father by treating others, even the ungrateful, with the same mercy He shows us.

More verses

Matthew 5:48 ↗
“Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.”
In plain words: The footnote explains that “perfect” means complete and fully developed. It is a destination the Savior leads us to over time, not a standard to beat ourselves with today.
Matthew 5:44 ↗
“But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;”
In plain words: Jesus asks for love that goes beyond what feels fair: blessing, doing good and praying for people who hurt us.
Matthew 5:16 ↗
“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.”
In plain words: Our goodness is meant to point people to Heavenly Father, not to ourselves.
Matthew 5:24 ↗
“Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.”
In plain words: Making peace with others is part of worshipping God, so important that the Savior says to do it before bringing our offering.

Scripture Showdown7 questions

  1. What did Jesus do the night before He chose the Twelve?
    • A. Fasted in the desert
    • B. Prayed all night on a mountain
    • C. Taught in the synagogue
    Show answer

    ✅ B. Prayed all night on a mountain Luke 6:12: He “continued all night in prayer to God.”

  2. Finish the Beatitude: “Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall…”
    • A. see God
    • B. be comforted
    • C. inherit the earth
    Show answer

    ✅ A. see God Matthew 5:8: “Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.”

  3. Who does Jesus say “shall be called the children of God”?
    • A. The meek
    • B. The merciful
    • C. The peacemakers
    Show answer

    ✅ C. The peacemakers Matthew 5:9: “Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.”

  4. What should you do before bringing your gift to the altar?
    • A. Wash your hands
    • B. Be reconciled to your brother
    • C. Pay your tithing
    Show answer

    ✅ B. Be reconciled to your brother Matthew 5:24: “first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.”

  5. If someone compels you to go a mile, how far should you go?
    • A. Not at all
    • B. Half a mile
    • C. Two miles
    Show answer

    ✅ C. Two miles Matthew 5:41: “whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain.”

  6. What does 3 Nephi 12:3 add to “Blessed are the poor in spirit”?
    • A. who come unto me
    • B. who give to the poor
    • C. who fast and pray
    Show answer

    ✅ A. who come unto me The risen Savior said, “blessed are the poor in spirit who come unto me.”

  7. In Luke 6:36, what does Jesus ask us to be, as our Father is?
    • A. Wise
    • B. Merciful
    • C. Patient
    Show answer

    ✅ B. Merciful “Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.”

▶ Play Scripture ShowdownTeams take turns on one screen.

From general conference

“Thus, the grace of Christ offers us not only salvation from sorrow and sin and death but also salvation from our own persistent self-criticism.”

— Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, “Be Ye Therefore Perfect—Eventually,” October 2017

Share in Perfect, Merciful, Complete, after reading 3 Nephi 12:48 and the footnote to Matthew 5:48.

Read the talk ↗

Songs

  • Count Your Blessings Hymns, no. 241

    A cheerful opening hymn for a lesson about what it really means to be blessed. Find it ↗

  • I Am a Child of God Hymns, no. 301

    The peacemakers “shall be called the children of God,” and loving our enemies makes us “the children of your Father.” Find it ↗

This week’s invitation

Mercy for One

Choose one person who is hard for you to love right now. Pray for them by name every day this week, and do one kind thing for them, even a small one. Before Sunday’s sacrament, reread Matthew 5:23–24 and make peace wherever you can.

Take it home

In Sunday School we read the Sermon on the Mount: the Beatitudes in Matthew 5, and the Savior’s call to “be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful” (Luke 6:36). Take it home: read Matthew 5:3–12 together and let each person pick the Beatitude they want to practice this week.

📝 After class

What worked? Who needs a check-in this week? Jot it here on a printed copy, or in the app’s private class notes.

Got extra time?

🌾 Lord of the Sabbath · 4 min

  1. Read Luke 6:1–11: disciples plucking grain on the Sabbath, and a man with a withered hand healed in the synagogue.
  2. Read verse 9: “Is it lawful on the sabbath days to do good, or to do evil? to save life, or to destroy it?”
  3. Ask: “How can our Sabbath focus less on what we avoid and more on the good we do?”

🏠 The House on the Rock · 4 min

  1. Read Luke 6:46–49, where the wise builder “digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock.”
  2. Point out verse 46: “why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?”
  3. Ask: “What does digging deep look like in the Sermon on the Mount: which one teaching will you actually do this week?”

📜 Not to Destroy, but to Fulfil · 4 min

  1. Read Matthew 5:17–20, then 3 Nephi 15:4–5, where the risen Savior says the law given to Moses is fulfilled in Him.
  2. Ask: “Jesus didn’t lower the standard; He raised it and moved it to the heart. Why is that harder, and why is it better?”

Sources

Scripture quotations are from the King James Version, the Bible used by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Tap or click a reference to open it in Gospel Library. Start with the official Come, Follow Me manual; these ideas are here to help it come alive.

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