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The Sermon on the Mount redefines “blessed,” aims the law at the heart, and turns “be ye therefore perfect” into a destination instead of a daily grade

  • 🏔️ Youth 16–18
  • Week 7
  • 📅 Sunday, February 14, 2027
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💡 The big idea

Jesus’s higher law reaches past my actions to my heart, and His call to be perfect is an invitation to become complete through Him over time, not a demand to be flawless today.

I can live the Savior’s higher law one heart-level choice at a time, and let His grace, not perfectionism, carry me toward becoming complete.

Study it yourself firstRead Matthew 5; Luke 6 in Gospel LibraryCome, Follow Me manualOpen this week (Matthew 5; Luke 6)
Know the chapters

Matthew 5 opens the Sermon on the Mount, which runs through Matthew 7. Luke 6 gives a shorter version on a level place, in 6:17. It comes right after Jesus prays all night and chooses the Twelve, in 6:12–16. The sermon starts with the Beatitudes in Matthew 5:3–12. Luke pairs them with four matching woes, in Luke 6:20–26. Then come salt and light in Matthew 5:13–16. Next are six contrasts that begin “Ye have heard that it was said… But I say unto you.” That’s 5:21–47. They cover anger, lust, divorce, oaths, retaliation and enemies. Each one takes an old command about actions and aims it at the heart. The chapter ends with “Be ye therefore perfect,” in 5:48.

Here are a few study helps your youth will love. Look at the footnote on Matthew 5:22. The Joseph Smith Translation and 3 Nephi 12:22 both leave out “without a cause.” So the Savior’s standard on anger is higher than it first looks. Matthew 5:23–24 says to be reconciled before you bring your gift to the altar. That speaks right to priests who bless the sacrament. The Book of Mormon version of the sermon adds important words: “blessed are the poor in spirit who come unto me,” in 3 Nephi 12:3. And after His Resurrection, the Savior says “perfect even as I, or your Father,” in 3 Nephi 12:48. The footnote on Matthew 5:48 explains that the Greek word means complete, finished, fully developed.

For 16- to 18-year-olds, this chapter lands right on top of perfectionism. Think college applications, scholarships, mission standards, sports, and a phone full of other people’s highlight reels. Jesus’s Beatitudes flip the world’s idea of “blessed.” Luke’s last woe stings in a world of likes and follower counts: “when all men shall speak well of you,” in 6:26. Jeffrey R. Holland gave a talk in October 2017 called “Be Ye Therefore Perfect—Eventually.” He says teenagers and missionaries often tell him they’re not good enough. He teaches that perfection is a gift received through Christ over time. See Moroni 10:32. Share it with confidence.

Handle Matthew 5:27–28 gently and simply. The Savior teaches that purity begins in our thoughts. “Your Body Is Sacred” in For the Strength of Youth: A Guide for Making Choices is a great companion. Don’t single anyone out. Keep the focus on hope and repentance. If a youth comes to you privately, listen warmly and point them to their parents and bishop. Shame is never the Savior’s tool.

Only have 5 minutes?

Read Matthew 5 and Luke 6:12–36. Hold up a seed and ask if it’s perfect. Tell the Sermon on the Mount from the screen with its questions. Read Matthew 5:48 and its footnote together. Spend the rest on the discussion. Close with salt, light and your testimony that the Savior makes us complete over time.

What to bring4 items

Tick what you have. Forgot something? Every step that needs a supply has a no-supplies version in the plan below.

Before class

  1. Read Matthew 5 in one sitting. Then read 3 Nephi 12 and notice what the Book of Mormon version adds.
  2. Look at the footnotes on Matthew 5:22 and 5:48 so you can point them out in class. Put a seed in your pocket.
  3. Think of a time you felt you’d never measure up. How did the Savior help you keep climbing anyway? You’ll share it in about a minute.

If your class is wild

  • Let them argue about whether the seed is perfect. The longer they argue, the harder Matthew 5:48 lands.
  • Older teens love the “Ye have heard… But I say” pattern once they see it. Let them spot it before you point it out.
  • Some of your class are quiet perfectionists. They never cause trouble, and they’re secretly exhausted. The discussion is for them. Slow down and let the silence work.
  • If Matthew 5:27–28 gets giggles, keep your voice calm and move on. Treating purity as normal and hopeful makes it safe to talk about.
  • Phones are fine for Gospel Library. Make one youth the footnote finder for Matthew 5:22 and 5:48.

The 25-minute plan23 min + bonus

Bonus steps are for when you have extra time. Steps that mention Teach Mode, the Sound Board or other class games refer to the Gospel Sparks app; on the web you can play Forehead Guess and Scripture Showdown from this page.

1. Hook

Is This Seed Perfect?

4 min

A tiny seed opens up the lesson’s big question: what does Jesus mean by “perfect”?

  1. SAY“Quick question. Is this seed perfect?”
  2. Hold up the seed and let them argue. It has no leaves, no fruit and no shade.
  3. Ask, “Is it failing at being a tree?” No. It has everything it needs to become one, if it keeps growing.
  4. SAY“Jesus ends Matthew 5 with ‘Be ye therefore perfect.’ Hold on to this seed. By the end, you’ll see why it matters.”
🌪️ If someone says, “It’s a perfect seed,” say, “Exactly. Keep that thought.” That’s where the lesson is going.

Class screen: 🌱 Is this seed perfect? · Matthew 5:48

No supplies? Do this instead

Instead of: A seed (an apple seed, a dry bean, or anything from the spice aisle)

  1. SAY“Picture an apple seed in my hand. Is it perfect?”
  2. Hold out a closed fist and let them argue. It has no leaves, no fruit and no shade.
  3. Ask, “Is it failing at being a tree?” No. It has everything it needs to become one, if it keeps growing.
  4. SAY“Jesus ends Matthew 5 with ‘Be ye therefore perfect.’ Hold on to that seed. By the end, you’ll see why it matters.”
2. Story

Tell the Story: The Sermon on the Mount

7 min

The teacher walks through Matthew 5 with questions woven in, so youth hear how the Savior aims the law at the heart.

  1. SAY“Jesus’s most famous sermon starts on a hillside. Listen for how often He turns the world’s ideas upside down.”
  2. Tell each scene in your own words. Have youth read the verses it names.
  3. Ask each scene’s question. Wait ten seconds, take one or two answers, then move on.
  4. After scene 4, ask, “What pattern do you hear?” Listen for “Ye have heard… But I say.” It goes from actions to the heart.

Class screen: ⛰️ The Sermon on the Mount · Matthew 5 · Ye have heard… But I say unto you

3. Scripture

Perfect… Eventually

4 min

Youth learn Matthew 5:48 with its footnote and see perfection as a gift received through Christ over time.

  1. SAY“Let’s learn the line that scares people.”
  2. Read Matthew 5:48 together with the motions. Say it twice.
  3. Have the footnote finder read the footnote: complete, finished, fully developed. Then read 3 Nephi 12:48: “perfect even as I, or your Father.”
  4. Read Elder Holland’s line about being finished and complete from the conference quotes. Hold up the seed and say, “Eventually.”

Class screen: 🧗 Be ye therefore perfect: complete, finished, fully developed. · Matthew 5:48 · 3 Nephi 12:48

4. Talk it over

Heart-Level Choices

5 min

An honest conversation about perfectionism, grace and what the higher law asks of a teenager’s heart.

  1. SAY“Let’s bring the sermon to your week.”
  2. Pick three questions. Ask one at a time and wait ten seconds.
  3. After the perfectionism question, read Elder Holland’s line about hypocrites and humans from the conference quotes.
  4. Answer one yourself, briefly and honestly.
💬 Ask the class
  • Think about the pressure to be flawless. Grades, college, sports, mission prep, your feed. What would steady improvement look like instead?
  • A priest fought with his brother on the drive to church. Now he’s sitting at the sacrament table. What does Matthew 5:23–24 ask of him in the next ten minutes?
  • A teammate mocks your mission plans. You’ve got the perfect comeback ready. What does loving an enemy look like, without becoming a doormat?
  • The higher law aims at the heart, not just actions. Why do you think Jesus cares so much about what nobody else can see?
  • Think of someone who’s been salt or light for you. What did they actually do?

Class screen: 💬 Where does Jesus’s higher law meet your real week?

5. Testimony

Salt and Light

3 min

End quiet with two simple symbols and a testimony that the Savior makes us complete over time.

  1. SAY“Salt only works when it mixes in with everything else, but stays salt.”
  2. Shake a little salt into your palm. Then turn on the flashlight and cup your hand over it.
  3. SAY“And light only works if you don’t cover it.”
  4. Uncover the light and lower your voice. Share a time you felt you’d never measure up. Tell how the Savior helped you keep climbing.
  5. Introduce the One Beatitude challenge on the screen. Invite a youth to say the closing prayer.

Class screen: 🕯️ Keep your savor. Uncover your light. Keep climbing. · Matthew 5:13–16

No supplies? Do this instead

Instead of: A salt shaker and a small flashlight (a phone flashlight works)

  1. SAY“Salt only works when it mixes in with everything else, but stays salt.”
  2. Sprinkle pretend salt over the class. Then cup your hands like you’re hiding a candle.
  3. SAY“And light only works if you don’t cover it.”
  4. Open your hands wide and lower your voice. Share a time you felt you’d never measure up. Tell how the Savior helped you keep climbing.
  5. Introduce the One Beatitude challenge on the screen. Invite a youth to say the closing prayer.
6. Wiggle break

Heard vs. Say

2 minBONUS

A fast bonus crouch-or-reach game on their feet drills the pattern of the higher law.

  1. SAY“Everyone stand. For the old law, ‘Ye have heard,’ crouch low. For the Savior’s higher law, ‘But I say unto you,’ stretch up on your toes.”
  2. Read these, mixed up: “Thou shalt not kill.” “Whosoever is angry with his brother…” “An eye for an eye.” “Turn to him the other also.”
  3. Then: “Hate thine enemy.” “Love your enemies.” “Perform unto the Lord thine oaths.” “Yea, yea; Nay, nay.” “Go with him twain.” Speed up at the end.

Class screen: 🧗 Old law: crouch. Higher law: reach up! · Ye have heard… But I say unto you

7. Game

Lightning Showdown

4 minBONUS

A fast bonus team quiz locks in the Beatitudes, salt and light, and the higher law.

  1. SAY“Two teams, pick captains. Let’s see what stuck from the mountain.”
  2. Tap Scripture Showdown. Teams get a five-second huddle, and only the captain answers. On a miss, the other team steals by quoting the verse.
▶ Play Scripture Showdown on the web

Class screen: ⚡ Lightning Showdown: the Sermon on the Mount

Object lesson

The Sermon on the Mount

Matthew 5:1–48 ↗

Scenes

  1. ⛰️👥 Jesus sits down on a mountain to teach

    Jesus has just prayed all night and chosen the Twelve. Crowds follow Him. So He goes up a mountain, sits down and teaches His disciples. What He says turns the world’s ideas about happiness upside down.

    🙌 Ask, “If you had one sermon to tell people how to be happy, what would you put first?”

  2. 📱🙏 “Blessed are the poor in spirit…”

    He starts with who is blessed. The poor in spirit. Those who mourn. The meek. The hungry for righteousness. The merciful. The pure in heart. The peacemakers. The persecuted. Not the rich. Not the popular. Not the powerful.

    🙌 A youth reads Matthew 5:3–6. Ask, “Which of these would never get a hashtag-blessed post?”

  3. 🧂🕯️ Salt of the earth, light of the world

    Then He tells them who they are. Salt that keeps its savor. A light nobody should hide under a bushel. Let people see your good works, He says, so they praise your Father in heaven.

    🙌 A youth reads Matthew 5:16. Ask, “What’s the difference between shining and showing off?”

  4. 😤⚖️ “Ye have heard… But I say unto you”

    Six times He says a version of the same thing. “Ye have heard that it was said… But I say unto you.” The old law said don’t kill. He says don’t even hold on to anger. Before you bring a gift to the altar, go make peace with your brother.

    🙌 Read Matthew 5:21–24 and point out the footnote on verse 22. Ask, “Why would Jesus care about anger if nobody got hurt?”

  5. 🙊🤝 Words, thoughts and enemies

    He keeps going. Purity starts in our thoughts. Let your yes mean yes. Don’t strike back. Go the second mile. Love your enemies. Pray for the people who treat you badly.

    🙌 Read Matthew 5:44. Ask, “Which of these is hardest for people your age?”

  6. 🌱🏔️ “Be ye therefore perfect”

    Then comes the line that makes everyone gulp. Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect. It sounds impossible. Until you remember the seed. The Greek word means complete, finished, fully developed.

    🙌 Hold up the seed again. Ask, “Is Jesus asking for flawless today, or for growth that ends in complete?”

Key verse

Matthew 5:48 ↗
“Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.”
In plain words: Become complete and fully developed, like your Father in Heaven. It’s where you’re headed with the Savior’s help, not a grade on today.
🙌 Three beats: “Be ye therefore perfect” = hands climb upward like stairs · “even as your Father which is in heaven” = point up · “is perfect” = hand on the heart. Say it twice, then once adding the footnote: “complete, finished, fully developed.”

More verses

Matthew 5:6 ↗
“Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.”
In plain words: Happy are the people who want to be good as badly as a starving person wants food. God will fill them.
Matthew 5:16 ↗
“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.”
In plain words: Let your goodness show, so people see it and end up praising Heavenly Father, not you.
Matthew 5:24 ↗
“Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.”
In plain words: If you’re at odds with someone, go make it right first, then come back and offer your worship.
Matthew 5:44 ↗
“But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;”
In plain words: Love the people who are against you: speak well of them, do good for them and pray for them, even when they treat you badly.

Forehead Guess words18 words

  • ⛰️ Sermon on the Mount
  • ✨ Beatitudes
  • 🙇 Poor in Spirit
  • 🕊️ Meek
  • 😢 Mourn
  • 🤝 Peacemakers
  • 🤍 Pure in Heart
  • 💗 Merciful
  • 🧂 Salt of the Earth
  • 💡 Light of the World
  • 🏙️ City on a Hill
  • 🧺 Bushel
  • 🔥 Altar
  • 🙂 Other Cheek
  • 🛣️ Second Mile
  • 😠 Enemies
  • 🏔️ Perfect
  • 🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Twelve Apostles
Clues for each word
  • Sermon on the Mount: Jesus’s great sermon in Matthew 5–7
  • Beatitudes: The “Blessed are…” list
  • Poor in Spirit: Humble, knowing you need God
  • Meek: They shall inherit the earth
  • Mourn: Those who do this shall be comforted
  • Peacemakers: Called the children of God
  • Pure in Heart: They shall see God
  • Merciful: They shall obtain mercy
  • Salt of the Earth: Useless if it loses its savour
  • Light of the World: Don’t hide it under a bushel
  • City on a Hill: It cannot be hid
  • Bushel: What not to put a candle under
  • Altar: Leave your gift here and go make peace first
  • Other Cheek: Turn it instead of hitting back
  • Second Mile: Go with him twain
  • Enemies: Love them, bless them, pray for them
  • Perfect: Complete, finished, fully developed
  • Twelve Apostles: Chosen after Jesus prayed all night
▶ Play Forehead GuessFull screen, 60-second timer, works on any phone.

Scripture Showdown9 questions

  1. According to Matthew 5:5, what will the meek inherit?
    • A. The earth
    • B. A kingdom of gold
    • C. Their fathers’ lands
    Show answer

    ✅ A. The earth Matthew 5:5. Meekness isn’t weakness; it’s strength under God’s control.

  2. What did Jesus promise the pure in heart?
    • A. They shall be filled
    • B. They shall be comforted
    • C. They shall see God
    Show answer

    ✅ C. They shall see God Matthew 5:8. Purity starts in the heart and thoughts.

  3. Peacemakers shall be called what?
    • A. Friends of the king
    • B. The children of God
    • C. Wise and prudent
    Show answer

    ✅ B. The children of God Matthew 5:9.

  4. What does the Book of Mormon add to “blessed are the poor in spirit”?
    • A. “Who come unto me”
    • B. “In the last days”
    • C. “Who pay tithing”
    Show answer

    ✅ A. “Who come unto me” 3 Nephi 12:3. The blessing comes from coming to Christ.

  5. What did Jesus say salt that has lost its savour is good for?
    • A. Cooking
    • B. Healing wounds
    • C. Nothing, but to be trodden under foot
    Show answer

    ✅ C. Nothing, but to be trodden under foot Matthew 5:13. A disciple who blends in completely loses what made them useful.

  6. Before offering your gift at the altar, what should you do first?
    • A. Wash your hands
    • B. Be reconciled to your brother
    • C. Pay the priest
    Show answer

    ✅ B. Be reconciled to your brother Matthew 5:23–24. Great counsel before the sacrament.

  7. If someone compels you to go a mile, Jesus says to…
    • A. Go with him twain
    • B. Refuse politely
    • C. Ask for payment
    Show answer

    ✅ A. Go with him twain Matthew 5:41: twain means two. Do more than you’re forced to.

  8. The footnote says “perfect” in Matthew 5:48 means…
    • A. Never making mistakes
    • B. Famous and admired
    • C. Complete, finished, fully developed
    Show answer

    ✅ C. Complete, finished, fully developed It’s a destination we reach through Christ, not a daily grade.

  9. What did Jesus do the night before choosing the Twelve?
    • A. Fasted in the desert
    • B. Prayed all night on a mountain
    • C. Fished on the lake
    Show answer

    ✅ B. Prayed all night on a mountain Luke 6:12–13. A big decision deserved a whole night of prayer.

▶ Play Scripture ShowdownTeams take turns on one screen.

From general conference

“If we admit that honestly and are trying to improve, we are not hypocrites; we are human.”

— Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, “Be Ye Therefore Perfect—Eventually,” October 2017

Read it in the Heart-Level Choices discussion, right after the question about pressure to be flawless.

Read the talk ↗
“If we persevere, then somewhere in eternity our refinement will be finished and complete—which is the New Testament meaning of perfection.”

— Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, “Be Ye Therefore Perfect—Eventually,” October 2017

Read it in the Perfect… Eventually step, after the footnote on Matthew 5:48 and 3 Nephi 12:48.

Read the talk ↗

Songs

  • I’m Trying to Be like Jesus Children’s Songbook, p. 78

    Jeffrey R. Holland mentions this song in his talk on perfection: honestly trying is what the Lord asks. Find it ↗

  • Count Your Blessings Hymns, no. 241

    After the Beatitudes, ask: which blessings would Jesus count? Find it ↗

  • Choose the Right Hymns, no. 239

    Four cases, four heart-level choices. Find it ↗

This week’s challenge

One Beatitude, One Week

Pick the Beatitude you most need to grow into. Each day this week, do one small thing that lives it. Send a peacemaking text, make a merciful choice, or say a real prayer when you feel poor in spirit. Go the second mile once for someone who can’t pay you back. Notice one place you demand perfection of yourself. Trade it for steady growth with the Savior’s help.

Text the parents

Today in class we studied the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5. We asked whether a seed is “perfect.” We compared the world’s “#blessed” with Jesus’s Beatitudes and talked through His higher law. We learned that “be ye therefore perfect” means becoming complete through Christ over time. Your youth chose one Beatitude to live this week. Ask: “Which Beatitude did you pick, and why that one?”

📝 After class

What worked? Who needs a check-in this week? Jot it here on a printed copy, or in the app’s private class notes.

Got extra time?

⚖️ Blessings and Woes · 5 min

  1. Read Luke 6:20–26. Match each blessing with its opposite woe.
  2. Ask, “Why would Jesus say woe to people who are full, rich, laughing and well spoken of? Is He against good things?”
  3. Talk about Luke 6:26 in a world of likes and followers.

🌌 All Night Before a Big Decision · 5 min

  1. Read Luke 6:12–13. Jesus prayed all night before choosing the Twelve.
  2. Ask, “What big decisions are coming for you in the next two years?” Think school, mission, work and relationships.
  3. Invite each youth to plan one long, unhurried prayer about a decision this month. Have them write down what comes.

🎧 Pick a Beatitude Talk · 3 min

  1. Offer three talks. Jeffrey R. Holland’s “Broken Things to Mend” is on the poor in spirit. Dale G. Renlund’s “Through God’s Eyes” is on mourning.
  2. Dieter F. Uchtdorf’s “The Merciful Obtain Mercy” is on the merciful. Let volunteers each choose one to read or listen to this week.
  3. Next week, give each volunteer about 60 seconds to teach one idea from their talk.

🗣️ Beatitude Speed-Teach · 6 min

  1. Assign each youth or pair one verse from Matthew 5:3–10.
  2. They get about ninety seconds to read it and the same verse in 3 Nephi 12. Find the attitude, the promise and one real example from a teen’s week.
  3. Go in order from verse 3 to verse 10, about twenty seconds each. Point out 3 Nephi 12:3: “blessed are the poor in spirit who come unto me.”

Sources

Scripture quotations are from the King James Version, the Bible used by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Tap or click a reference to open it in Gospel Library. Start with the official Come, Follow Me manual; these ideas are here to help it come alive.

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