Matthew 11:28–30 is one of the Savior’s most tender invitations. Come to Him when you labor and are heavy laden. Take His yoke, learn of Him, and find rest. A yoke is a wooden beam that joins two oxen so they pull a load together. Farmers sometimes trained a young ox by yoking it beside a strong, experienced one. The young one learned by walking with it. The manual connects the yoke to our covenants. When we make and keep covenants, we’re bound to Jesus Christ, and He pulls with us. He doesn’t always remove the burden, but He makes it lighter. The Book of Mormon shows the same thing in Mosiah 24:14–15. The Lord eased the burdens of Alma’s people so they could hardly feel them on their backs.
Matthew 12 shows what His rest is not. Religious leaders had piled so many extra rules on the Sabbath that it had become a burden. Hungry disciples plucked grain, and the Pharisees called it breaking the Sabbath. The King James Version calls the grain “corn.” Jesus answered with scripture. David once ate the holy shewbread when he was hungry, in 1 Samuel 21:1–6. And God said, “I will have mercy, and not sacrifice.” See Matthew 12:7 and Hosea 6:6. Then He declared Himself “Lord even of the sabbath day.” In the synagogue, they pointed to a man with a withered hand, hoping to trap Him. He asked who wouldn’t lift a sheep out of a pit on the Sabbath. He concluded, “it is lawful to do well on the sabbath days,” and healed the man. The leaders went out and plotted against Him.
Jesus also taught that our words and actions come from what’s in our hearts. In Matthew 12:34–35 He said, “out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.” In Luke 11, He taught His disciples to pray. He told of a friend who kept knocking at midnight. And He promised, “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.” Earthly parents don’t hand a hungry child a stone or a scorpion. So how much more will Heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask? That’s Luke 11:9–13.
For nine- to eleven-year-olds, burdens are real. Think pressure at school, friendship drama, family changes and mistakes they carry around. They’re also old enough to think about why the Sabbath matters, not just list rules. Help them ask, “Does this help me come to Jesus and do good?” Boys can be ordained deacons in January of the year they turn 12. Then they begin passing the sacrament. So the Sabbath and the sacrament are about to become their service, not just their seat.